We should never be so self-oriented that we meddle with the feelings of those who care about us.
Nor should we be so self-involved that we sabotage the lives of others who we couldn't care less about.

But who am I to say what we shall or shan't do?
If someone needs trust, he needs to act trustworthy.
If someone needs love, she needs to be lovable.
If someone needs a new start, he has to know when to end and where to begin.
With no love presented, no sign of credibility, one can never begin to confide in another.

2005. 我认识了寂寞
也许很久很久以后，可以一笑而过，对于曾经的年轻和无知。
或者，在某个异乡的小家庭里，偶然想起，却还是无法释怀。

我可以一本正经地去安慰每个受过伤的朋友，
一副很坚强独立的样子。
也可以自我开导，自我暗示
永远不会崩溃似的任性地强迫自己忘记。

每一刻，或悄无声息，或轰轰烈烈
到最后，均是要被挥去的
不同的在于是否有人分享，与谁分享
我想，第一次被爱人牵起手的感觉，是任何人都无法忘怀的
更不能忘怀的，估计只有当你忽然发现你爱他的那一天吧
即使消逝了昨天，曲终人散，所有这些感情都像是被刻在心头
过了多年，想起还是隐隐作痛，却怎么都无法擦去。